Serious Reasons Why People are often silent. You should know!

Do you know what are the reasons people are silent and don't want to talk to people around them, more precisely, a cold attitude towards everything that happens around them.

Silence is indeed recommended for those who are Muslim, rather than uttering useless words, it is better to be silent.

Silence in this article means silence that is done by someone for something, usually silence that is not unusual. For some people silence is an innate trait that indicates a person who is quiet and only talks as needed.

Before you get the wrong idea, you must know the following 6 reasons why people are silent.

Keeping Other People's Feelings

Silent people usually get some pressure and try to take care of other people's feelings, because they know very well when they talk or say things that will hurt other people's feelings.

It could be that what he expresses is his mood, but not necessarily other people can accept it. So it's better to be silent than to say it.

This silence is very difficult for some people because it holds a burden in their hearts, many of them slip away with what they feel at that time.

Thinking

Silence because thinking is silence which is meant in the proverb 'silence is gold' because behind his silence, someone is thinking about something that is beneficial for him.

But there are also those who, when silent, think of a ruse tactic to prank someone or other actions that harm others.

People who are silent while thinking is a sign of natural intellectual intelligence, because they are able to make the best possible use of time to think about something. So people like this will find it very difficult to sleep at night because their minds continue to work even though their eyes are closed.

Many Problems Faced

Even a strong person when hit by repeated problems will remain silent, unresolved problems will result in a weakened mentality and lead to silence.

Life problems that are quite heavy will indeed make people silent, losing loved ones to death, being in debt, being fired, a brother who is seriously ill, being cheated by people are the most common problems.

Not a few people who experience mental disorders because of this, at first silent and even hallucinating. So that it affects the soul for a long time.

In love

Don't mistake people who are silent, because it could be that people who used to be cheerful and like to gossip will become quiet because they are blooming in their hearts. Trying to keep feelings in your heart will make people speechless, especially when you meet someone you love.

Silence accompanied by a slight shy smile is the most common sign, so don't be surprised if a friend or friend of yours acts like this.

Silence for people who fall in love aims to maintain their image in front of the people they want so they don't feel uncomfortable with this strange behavior.

Shy

Shyness is one of the reasons people stay silent, but that doesn't mean people who talk a lot are shameless. Please don't misunderstand this.

Innate shyness causes a person to remain silent in public spaces or in their social environment. Embarrassed to reveal something, so this person will have a lot of fiction in his diary or personal blog.

Angry

The last reason is anger, even people who are silent when they are angry are a problem for other people around them because they do not understand the cause of their anger.

The highest level of anger is silence, so be careful if your relatives or loved ones are silent because of anger. I myself prefer to be spoken to rather than silenced when the closest people are angry.

Those are 6 reasons people prefer to be silent, so don't get me wrong when someone is silent. Study the behavior and see which reasons might be causing the person to shut up.

"Silently you are safe from trouble", remember your mouth your tiger.

The Japanese say 'Kuchi Wa Wazawai no Kado' which means 'Mouth is the gate of calamity'

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